Do your kids seem to think you should crawl into a corner once you hit a certain age? Especially if you're single and want to get out and meet someone and maybe add some romance to your life! I think we have to remember that when we were younger, we never thought of our parents having friends, going to parties or maybe even a little hanky panky! :)
I think it's important for women as they go through menopause to try to keep themselves in good shape physically and mentally. Keep a positive attitude and get out there and have FUN!