Well, my day didn't go as planned, i woke this morning to see DH of to work when i saw my next door neighbour, sadly her husband passed away last night at 12.30, well what can you say, i came in the house and wrote a sympathy card and took it straight round, he was a lovely man aged 76, he had been suffering with leukaemia for the last 12 months and had been in and out of hospital for a while, Sheila, my neighbour was in a really bad way so i sat with her for a while until her family came.
After my visit i came home and did the house work, then myself and my sister went to the cemetery to take my dad some fresh flowers, my mum goes every week and as she is away my sister rang and asked if i wanted to go. We came back to my house and had dinner and chatted for a while, then i did as i said i would and cooked everyone a lovely tea, every one enjoyed it i think my DH thinks i have gone mad lol, the kids looked at me a bit funny as well, they had better get used to it because this is how i want things to be from now on, except for the obvious today has not been to bad, i had a bit of a panic this after noon when my sister left but i pulled myself together and did a few things around the house, phoned my son at work, then phoned DH, wow! my phone bill will be sky high,
so on the whole not to bad, the bills were put aside until tomorrow so that is one on the list.
Thank you all for your support it is great just to log in here and see all the posts and sometimes be able to help others out.
forgive me now - tomorrow i may no longer feel guilty.